Questions for your boyfriend, and more reading
However, don't be judgmental about anything as it is the last thing the woman will be accepting from you. First try to understand her, and then ask relative questions to support her feelings. It is also good to ask her about yourself and how she looks you in her life. You can start by asking questions about imaginary situations; what would happen if I react unexpectedly, and what if I become jobless?. This will reflect if she is materialistic or really loves you.